If you take a moment to examine the situation that your life is in right now you'll find it to be the perfect validation of the life you live and the things you say.
That just seems to be the way things work and that's also one of the main features of the Subconscious mind. Whatever you place your focus on you eventually attract. So the life you're living now or the person you are right now is the result of your recent thinking to this point and the way you're acting and speaking.
